Friday, 12 September 2014

Wait or move on..

#WaitOrMoveOn#
Wrote by : Arissya Aygpinky
On Friday, 12 September, 2014
22.08pm
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"Alangkah buruknya kepapaan, kalau aku mengadu aku malu, kalau aku berdiam diri aku binasa"
-Saidina Ali bin Abi Talib

“You can wait around for people to change, or you can change yourself and move on”

If i could make a good decision, i wish..,
i wish i could make it better.
Better than to choose between two choices.
I believe, changing something or someone to a new brand thing is not as easy as what we thought. Although, we believe time is the best tarbiyyah,
but sometimes we realised that, "sabar" is the most crucial thing that we need.

"Sabar" is not only mean by waiting and keep standing there.
"Sabar" is not just make you look and see the changes to happen.
"Sabar" is about we are trying for something in order to make it better. We turn something into a pleasure mean.
Somehow,
That is just the fact of real mean. The real theory that really should happen.
But..
the reality is, I'm just too weak to change it.
I'm just too fragile inside to pretend that I'm strong.
I just get easily upset.

Should i wait for the thing/someone to change or i can just move on…
letting go of that thing for someone better to fix it?? to change it??
Is that fair enough when i put the conclusion on that thing/person without i first do something to it..?
or even try to say a word as an advice?

Ya Allah, please guide me.
If there is a good deed that i can do to help ‘him’, then show me that way Ya Allah.
Ease me to do that.
Dont let me choose my own way..

“When you allow yourself to be too attached to someone,you become weak, overly sensitive, and
bruise much too easily. It's  not worth it”

Jazakallah
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